The answer to the question: ‘How to meet single women?’ is EASY, if you can follow a few simple rules and understand that women are out there looking and searching just like you are.
You can meet single and available women in a number of different places with varying degrees of success, such as walking in the park, washing clothes at a ‘laundry mate’, visiting a public library, meeting at work or while grocery shopping.
We all, as men, have our pin-up fantasy girl in mind. However, the odds that she will be walking down the beer and chip aisle at the local grocery store are…..Well, I think you get the drift.
Let’s look at some of the more common places that we all come up with.
1. Local bars and pubs.
I had plenty of success meeting women in these places, especially on Karaoke night. Just sing an old Lonestar tune and you are in. What if you can’t carry a tune even if it had handles? Are you to shy? This is not the place for everyone, as it is usually loud and hard to hold a conversation.
I think going to the bar for a drink with your buddies is great. But meeting a woman that you could take home to meet mom is a different ballgame.
Besides, when was the last time you went to a bar and found them lined up, dressed to kill waiting there just for you? My experience is that they come together like cattle and, unless you are a skilled cowboy, it is hard to cut one from the herd.
I joined a gym, paid the membership fees, worked out like a mad man and chased women all day on the tracks and treadmills. They were way too fast!!!!
The ones that were slow enough to catch – well, I will leave them to your imagination. They loved to bake….I got a few good recipes anyway.
3. Library and museums.
SHHHHHHHHH … enough said.
It is hard to imagine that you may meet your ‘Miss Right’ on your construction crew. Most offices and work sites have rules against this anyway.
Moreover, she might end up being your boss someday. It happened to me once. I was moving on about that time; boy, was that awkward. And I became unemployed at the same time.
5. Friends and Family.
This can be a great way to meet single women. I am sure that your buddy is such a good friend that he will pass one on to you. As far as family goes, that’s against the law in most states..except the deep south.
Truthfully, as we get older it is harder to meet women that are single and available with a limited amount of baggage. I only went on one blind date and it lasted over 10 years. Don’t you just love the line: ‘well.. she has a great personality’.
This can be a great place to meet single women, if you are in college. Seriously, I was already in a relationship when I went to college but there were plenty of pretty single women thereto flirt with.
7. Dating on-line.
I personally had the most success finding and dating women on-line.
I started out with some of the local dating sites since I was new to the area that I lived in. I had almost no chance meeting single women in any of the other ways listed above.
I worked 8 to10 hours a day. One of the benefits of on-line dating was that I could do my searching and chatting with women who were also looking for ‘Mr. Right’ late into the evening, from the privacy of my own apartment.
I found through trial and error that the best strategy for meeting single women on-line is to establish some trust and meet as soon as they are comfortable with you.
At first, I did it all: washed my truck, dressed to the hilt, bought flowers and took them to dinner. Well, I found that I could only afford about two dates a month at that rate.
Believe it or not, some of the women posted pictures of themselves when they were much younger and thinner – probably because their camera was broken and they could not afford a new one. There was the occasional rejection from their side as well.
That made it really fun to get the bill at the Red Lobster.
So, in order to maximize the meetings and minimize the expense, I started meeting them publicly at coffee shops. My favorite was Starbucks. Then, at the worst, you were only out of pocket ten bucks or so.
Reading profiles was also a big advantage. I loved the active outdoorsy types. It was pretty easy to tell if they had stretched the truth in this area.
I met many wonderful, and in some cases just plain crazy, women of all backgrounds. However, I wanted to be thorough. So I expanded my search to larger areas by joining some National Dating sites. That was an entirely different ballgame. Before I knew it, women were flying in to meet me from different states. It was crazy!
To ensure the world was my playground, I left no stone unturned. As a result, I started to check out the International dating sites. And wow!!!! Women were HOT and ready to move to the States. All I had to do after a few e-mails was to pay their rent or send them $$$$$$ for any number of real, or imaginary, emergencies.
To tell the truth, there are lots of scammers out there. There is no doubt about that.
But, if you use legitimate sites – and follow strict rules and guidelines – it can be a great adventure.
And like me, you can end up meeting the women of your dreams, fall in love, get married, and be blessed with the family that you are looking for.
SO, in closing, the best advice I can give you women seekers is to use all the tools available to you out there – including your God given ones – and leave no stone unturned, using common sense in your search.
If you have any questions of how to meet single women, need advice, or just want to share your experiences with me, please feel free to send your comments. I will respond to you as soon as possible.
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